Unearth Your Relationship

This isn’t about fixing her. This isn’t about fixing you.

It’s about becoming the man she can’t help but want.

This is an 8-week transformative course designed for men — combining cutting-edge tools like Neurolinguistic programming (NLP), and the real-world relationship skills, wisdom and insights of a successful couples coach.

You’ll learn fabulous sentences and small behaviour changes that:

  • help her feel closer to you

  • help her respond positively to you

  • help her want to touch you - yes sexually

  • help her admire and respect you

  • help her want to support you

Based on 10 years of experience, enhancing connection and communication, rebuilding intimacy, learning to handle conflict healthily.

Hear from Emma - a little taste of what’s inside

🔥 The Hard Truth (Backed by Research)

68% of divorces are initiated by women.

Most men never see it coming. In therapy, we call this “the silent exit.” She’s often emotionally gone months or years before she physically leaves.

When women leave, they’ve usually planned it.

She’s thought about the finances, the logistics, the housing. While you were thinking things were “fine”, she was quietly gathering receipts.

Men are often blindsided.

Research shows men consistently rate their marriage more positively than their partner—right up until the end. That’s not a character flaw—it’s a communication gap.

The #1 predictor of divorce isn’t cheating. It’s emotional disconnection.

According to Dr. John Gottman (world-renowned relationship researcher), the biggest red flag is when couples turn away from each other instead of turning toward. That means ignoring small moments of need, brushing off comments, or skipping touch, eye contact, or appreciation.

You don’t need to change everything.

Studies in behavioral psychology show that changing just 2-3 small behaviours can dramatically shift your partner’s emotional safety, which in turn opens the door to more touching, more ease, more smiles and more affection.

Silent resentment kills desire.

Many women aren’t angry—they’re exhausted. When a woman feels unseen, unheard, or overburdened, sex and touching drops off not because she doesn’t want you—but because her nervous system is in survival mode.

Women often want to feel safe, appreciated, and supported.

The good news? These aren’t opposites. In fact, when she feels those things… she wants more physical closeness with you.

*And even if you’re having regular sex it doesn’t mean your relationship is immune to divorce. She still needs to feel safe, appreciated and supported day by day to want to stay with you.

  • You want more freedom, and more connection — and you’re ready to lead the way

  • You love your partner, but you know there’s a better version of this relationship waiting to be unlocked

  • You want to feel wanted again — not just needed or tolerated

  • You’re tired of walking on eggshells or waiting for things to magically get better

  • You want to go out with your mates and come home to a woman who lights up when she sees you

  • You’re ready to understand women — not to control them, but to serve and lead them with presence

  • You’re open to hearing hard truths and learning what actually works (even if it challenges your old habits)

  • You want to become the kind of man whose depth, steadiness, and energy turns her on more than your words ever could

  • You know that freedom isn’t found in escape — it’s earned through alignment, leadership, and love

  • You’re ready to be the one who shifts the energy in your relationship — for yourself, for her, and for the life you want to create

You’re The Kind Of Man This Course Was Built For If…

Here’s What You’ll Actually Learn (And Use)

  • 1. Understand Women (For Real)

    Most men think they understand women until they don’t.

    You’ll learn what’s really going on beneath the surface: how her brain works, why she changes moods, what shuts her down — and what makes her crave you again. When you know this, everything changes.

  • 2. Lead With Presence, Not Pressure

    It all starts with the energy you bring to the relationship.

    You’ll learn how to show up as a grounded, clear, calm leader — not a man reacting to her moods or chasing approval. Presence is what earns trust, respect, and desire. We’ll show you how to build it.

  • 3. Build Connection That Sparks Desire

    Sex doesn’t start in the bedroom — it starts in how you handle everyday life.

    You’ll learn how to build emotional connection (without losing your edge), use words and actions that land well, and create the safety and polarity that turns her on. Less nagging. More touching.

  • 4. Create a Life of Freedom and Connection

    You want freedom without drama. You want a relationship that works for both of you — not one where you feel trapped or resentful.

    You’ll learn how to lead this rhythm — through presence, purpose, and polarity — and become the man she wants to give her freedom and her body too.

What Changes When You Finally Understand Her - And Yourself 

  • Not through manipulation or begging — but because she genuinely wants you.

    She feels safe, seen, and turned on. You become the man she craves again.

  • When she feels secure and connected with you, she’s not trying to clip your wings.

    You’ll learn how to earn the kind of trust that makes her want you to go out and enjoy your life — because she knows you’ll show up fully when it counts.

  • No more walking on eggshells. No more getting blindsided by resentment or withdrawal.

    You’ll learn how to shift the emotional climate of your home — from tension to ease, from criticism to connection.

  • You’ll stop reacting to her moods or trying to fix everything.

    Instead, you’ll lead with presence and purpose.

    That’s what turns her on. That’s what earns respect. That’s what brings you peace.

  • A relationship where you both feel free, desired, and connected.

    Where the bedroom is alive.

    Where your mates respect you.

    Where your kids see what a great man — and a great couple — looks like.

You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to lead. We’ll show you how.

Your 8 Week Journey

  • You’ll finally understand what’s going on beneath her words — and why she reacts the way she does.

    This week gives you the decoder ring most men never get: insight into her mental load, emotional patterns, and what she actually needs to feel safe and connected.

    Small changes in how you respond can unlock a huge shift in how she sees you.

  • Ever tried to ask for something or explain yourself… and it only made things worse? This week, you’ll learn what women actually hear when you talk (hint: it’s not always what you said).

    We’ll give you magic phrases that land well, a “get out of jail free” repair tool, and ways to express yourself so she feels safer — and way more attracted to you.

  • Foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom — it starts on Monday.

    You’ll learn how to build connection throughout the week, through small moments of leadership, kindness, and presence.

    No pressure. No games. Just a new way of showing up that makes her feel safe, desired, and open again.Foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom — it starts on Monday.

    You’ll learn how to build connection throughout the week, through small moments of leadership, kindness, and presence.

    No pressure. No games. Just a new way of showing up that makes her feel safe, desired, and open again.

  • If she’s stressed, distant, or on edge, it’s not rejection — it’s protection.

    This week, you’ll learn how to shift the emotional climate by becoming the calm, grounded presence she can lean into.

    The meditation will teach you to stay open under pressure, lead with empathy, and reset the dynamic with a few powerful words and a grounded nervous system.

  • Desire doesn’t disappear — it gets buried under stress, resentment, and unspoken needs.

    You’ll learn how to identify the invisible blocks in your relationship, and how to clear space for connection to grow again.

    This week is about seeing the hidden patterns — and shifting them, fast.

  • Being a great lover isn’t about tricks or techniques — it’s about attention.

    You’ll learn how to listen with your whole body, bring your presence into touch, and tune into her energy in a way that makes her feel deeply wanted and safe.

    This week reconnects sex with trust — and turns it into something magnetic.

  • You’ll learn how to build intensity without chasing release — and why mastering your energy changes how she responds to you.

    This week introduces breath, awareness, and control techniques that build confidence and create deeper physical connection — without rushing or losing your power.

  • This is where it all comes together.

    You’ll design your own rhythm — one where intimacy, autonomy, mateship, and purpose fit together without guilt or grind.

    You’ll rehearse how you show up in your week — and how to keep leading from a place of clarity, connection, and ease.

“This isn’t about pleasing her to keep the peace. This is about becoming the man you’d be proud to be — one she can’t resist, one your mates respect, and one your kids look up to.”

Emma Rogers Dumas

Real Change happens when you don’t just know what to do — you can feel it, lead it, and live it. Here’s how we’ll help you get there.

And just like an elite athlete trains for game day — mentally rehearsing the right moves before they hit the field — you’ll train for the moments that matter most in your relationship.

How it works and how you can make a difference.

  • Each week you’ll get straight-talking insights and tools from an experienced couples coach — no fluff, no jargon. You’ll learn:

    ✅ Why she reacts the way she does — and what creates real trust and attraction

    ✅ What shuts down her desire — and how to stop doing it

    ✅ How to speak, lead, and show up in ways that naturally make her want to be close (and say yes more often)

    You’ll also start to understand your own patterns — and how to shift from reacting to leading.

  • Learning is great — but men change when they feel it in their body.

    That’s why every week you’ll use a guided Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP)-based meditation, built on the same mental rehearsal techniques elite athletes use before big games.

    In these meditations, you’ll:

    ✅ Mentally rehearse key moments — handling her moods, building attraction, leading calmly

    ✅ Build a felt sense of the man you want to be — so when the moment comes, your body already knows how to show up

    ✅ Anchor new patterns — so trust, polarity, and leadership become second nature

    This is where the real shift happens — from knowledge to embodied change.

  • Each week, you’ll take clear, simple actions that change the dynamic in your relationship fast.

    You won’t be guessing — you’ll be applying proven tools.

    You’ll learn how to:

    ✅ Build connection through small daily actions (the stuff that makes her want you again)

    ✅ Communicate boundaries, desires, and appreciation in ways that land

    ✅ Shift the emotional climate at home — so she feels safe, connected, and turned on

    ✅ Balance your mateship, freedom, and family life — with leadership she respects

    By the end of 8 weeks, you’ll be leading a different relationship — one where trust is high, sex is alive, and freedom flows from how you show up as a man.

Happy Customers

‘“This course changed everything. I stopped trying to fix my wife — and started showing up in a way that made her feel safe, seen, and turned on. We’re having more sex, less arguments, and I’ve got more space to be myself again.”

— Mark, 42, Dad of three, Sydney

“I signed up thinking this might get me more sex. Turns out it made me a better man — and then I got more sex. My wife actually said, ‘Who even are you right now?’ in a good way. Highly recommend.”

— Dave, 38, Footy Coach, Brisbane

Why We Built This Course

After years of working with couples in my private practice—and learning from my own 12-year marriage, dating app disasters, my parents’ divorce, and the many relationships I’ve witnessed up close—I kept seeing the same painful thing:

Good people, totally misunderstanding each other.

It’s not that men don’t care. It’s that no one ever taught you how women actually think, feel, and interpret what’s going on. And when communication breaks down, it leads to emotional disconnection, hidden resentment, and often, a serious drop in touching and affection.

This course is here to flip that.

I built it to help men like you finally understand what your partner really needs to feel close, relaxed, and turned on—and how a few simple shifts in what you say and do can change everything.

Most guys don’t need therapy. They just need real insight, direct advice, and a couple of practical tools they can actually use at home.

So that’s what this is.

A no-BS guide to getting more of what you want—touching , peace, appreciation, and time with your mates—by becoming the emotionally solid, generous man she naturally wants to say yes to.

You don’t have to be perfect.

You just have to be willing to try a few things differently.

And I’ll walk you through all of it—one short meditation at a time.

Meet the Team


  • I tell people I help create happiness for a living.

    The business I founded, as a parenting instructor, couples coach and life coach has helped 100’s of people. I believe deeply in the ripple effect, so it may likely be more.

    In 11 years.

    I’ve assisted so many couples to work as a team, helped clients connect with their kids in fabulous new ways, and supported everyone I work with know what to do in every parenting and partnership moment. 

  • I spent 30 years in the corporate world — leading teams, mentoring others, and building platforms that could scale. That gave me a deep understanding of leadership, human behaviour, and how to create change that lasts.

    In recent years, I’ve shifted my focus to inner work — drawing on my training in NLP, meditation, and emotional mastery with teachers like Tony Robbins and the Chopra Institute.

    When I met Emma, I saw the impact of her work with couples — and knew I could help bring it to more people. My strength is building things that last. Hers is helping people heal and reconnect. This course brings both together.

    As a man, I’ve used the tools in this program myself. And I can say with full conviction — they work.

Got Questions? You’re Not Alone.

  • No — it’s about becoming the man who naturally creates more connection, trust, and desire in your relationship.

    When you lead with presence, understand how women actually think, and create emotional safety, sex flows much more easily — but you’ll also get more freedom, less drama, and more peace at home.

  • Not at all. This isn’t about becoming someone else — it’s about becoming the best version of yourself.

    You’ll learn to lead with more clarity, calm, and masculine presence. The tools in this course help you enhance who you are — so she can feel it and respond to it.

  • That’s a common thought — and understandable. But here’s the truth:

    You can’t force her to change. What you can do is shift how you lead, communicate, and show up.

    When you do, the dynamic changes fast. Women are highly responsive to energy — when yours shifts, hers usually does too. This course shows you how to lead that shift.

  • No — in fact, the opposite.

    You’ll learn to set stronger boundaries, communicate more powerfully, and lead the relationship with presence and purpose. This is about masculine leadership, not compliance.

    Done right, this makes you more respected and desired — not less.

  • You can — but you don’t have to.

    Many men take the course quietly and watch how their relationship shifts naturally. Others choose to share it with their partner and invite collaboration.

    Either way, the tools you’ll learn will speak louder than words — she’ll feel the difference in how you show up.

  • Absolutely. This course is built on practical, real-world tools you’ll actually use.

    We do use insights from NLP and relationship psychology — but it’s all taught in plain language, with a masculine, action-focused approach.

    If you want simple, powerful things you can say and do that actually work — you’re in the right place!