Unearth Your Relationship

This isn’t about fixing her. This isn’t about fixing you.

It’s about becoming the man she can’t help but want.

This is an 8-week transformative course designed for men — combining cutting-edge tools like NLP, and the real-world relationship skills, wisdom and insights of a successful couples coach.

You’ll learn fabulous sentences and small behaviour changes that:

  • help her feel closer to you

  • help her respond positively to you

  • help her want to touch you - yes sexually

  • help her admire and respect you

  • help her want to support you

Based on 10 years of experience, enhancing connection and communication, rebuilding intimacy, learning to handle conflict healthily.

Hear from Emma - a little taste of what’s inside

🔥 The Hard Truth (Backed by Research)

68% of divorces are initiated by women.

Most men never see it coming. In therapy, we call this “the silent exit.” She’s often emotionally gone months or years before she physically leaves.

When women leave, they’ve usually planned it.

She’s thought about the finances, the logistics, the housing. While you were thinking things were “fine”, she was quietly gathering receipts.

Men are often blindsided.

Research shows men consistently rate their marriage more positively than their partner—right up until the end. That’s not a character flaw—it’s a communication gap.

The #1 predictor of divorce isn’t cheating. It’s emotional disconnection.

According to Dr. John Gottman (world-renowned relationship researcher), the biggest red flag is when couples turn away from each other instead of turning toward. That means ignoring small moments of need, brushing off comments, or skipping touch, eye contact, or appreciation.

You don’t need to change everything.

Studies in behavioral psychology show that changing just 2-3 small behaviours can dramatically shift your partner’s emotional safety, which in turn opens the door to more sex, more ease, more smiles and more affection.

Silent resentment kills desire.

Many women aren’t angry—they’re exhausted. When a woman feels unseen, unheard, or overburdened, sex and touching drops off not because she doesn’t want you—but because her nervous system is in survival mode.

Men often want more sex and touch. Women often want to feel safe, appreciated, and supported.

The good news? These aren’t opposites. In fact, when she feels those things… she wants more physical closeness with you.

*And even if you’re having regular sex it doesn’t mean your relationship is immune to divorce. She still needs to feel safe, appreciated and supported day by day to want to stay with you.

  • You want more sex, more freedom, and more connection — and you’re ready to lead the way

  • You love your partner, but you know there’s a better version of this relationship waiting to be unlocked

  • You want to feel wanted again — not just needed or tolerated

  • You’re tired of walking on eggshells or waiting for things to magically get better

  • You want to go out with your mates and come home to a woman who lights up when she sees you

  • You’re ready to understand women — not to control them, but to serve and lead them with presence

  • You’re open to hearing hard truths and learning what actually works (even if it challenges your old habits)

  • You want to become the kind of man whose depth, steadiness, and energy turns her on more than your words ever could

  • You know that freedom isn’t found in escape — it’s earned through alignment, leadership, and love

  • You’re ready to be the one who shifts the energy in your relationship — for yourself, for her, and for the life you want to create

You’re The Kind Of Man This Course Was Built For If…

Here’s What You’ll Actually Learn (And Use)

  • 1. Understand Women (For Real)

    Most men think they understand women until they don’t.

    You’ll learn what’s really going on beneath the surface: how her brain works, why she changes moods, what shuts her down sexually — and what makes her crave you again. When you know this, everything changes.

  • 2. Lead With Presence, Not Pressure

    It all starts with the energy you bring to the relationship.

    You’ll learn how to show up as a grounded, clear, calm leader — not a man reacting to her moods or chasing approval. Presence is what earns trust, respect, and desire. We’ll show you how to build it.

  • 3. Build Connection That Sparks Desire

    Sex doesn’t start in the bedroom — it starts in how you handle everyday life.

    You’ll learn how to build emotional connection (without losing your edge), use words and actions that land well, and create the safety and polarity that turns her on. Less nagging. More touching.

  • 4. Create a Life of Freedom, Connection, and Better Sex

    You want freedom without drama. You want a relationship that works for both of you — not one where you feel trapped or resentful.

    You’ll learn how to lead this rhythm — through presence, purpose, and polarity — and become the man she wants to give her freedom and her body too.

What Changes When You Finally Understand Her - And Yourself 

  • Not through manipulation or begging — but because she genuinely wants you.

    She feels safe, seen, and turned on. You become the man she craves again.

  • When she feels secure and connected with you, she’s not trying to clip your wings.

    You’ll learn how to earn the kind of trust that makes her want you to go out and enjoy your life — because she knows you’ll show up fully when it counts.

  • No more walking on eggshells. No more getting blindsided by resentment or withdrawal.

    You’ll learn how to shift the emotional climate of your home — from tension to ease, from criticism to connection.

  • You’ll stop reacting to her moods or trying to fix everything.

    Instead, you’ll lead with presence and purpose.

    That’s what turns her on. That’s what earns respect. That’s what brings you peace.

  • A relationship where you both feel free, desired, and connected.

    Where the bedroom is alive.

    Where your mates respect you.

    Where your kids see what a great man — and a great couple — looks like.

You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to lead. We’ll show you how.

Your 8 Week Journey

  • Why does she seem upset when you think things are fine? Why does one small thing you forgot turn into an avalanche of “you never…”?

    This week, you’ll finally understand how women actually think — and why most of us (yes, even the good ones) are walking around carrying a heavy mental load. Once you get this, you’ll stop taking her moods personally — and start becoming the man who calms her down and turns her on.

  • Ever tried to ask for something or explain yourself… and it only made things worse? This week, you’ll learn what women actually hear when you talk (hint: it’s not always what you said).

    We’ll give you magic phrases that land well, a “get out of jail free” repair tool, and ways to express yourself so she feels safer — and way more attracted to you.

  • Bad news: If you wait until 10pm on a Friday night to get romantic, you’re already too late.

    Good news: When you learn how to build connection throughout the week, she’ll be thinking about you long before the bedroom.

    This week, you’ll learn exactly how to “turn her on” without trying to — through small but powerful actions that make her feel liked, loved, and safe.

  • One of the biggest reasons women lose interest in sex? They feel pressure — and not just about sex. Pressure to do it all, be it all, manage it all.

    This week, you’ll learn how to shift the emotional climate of your home and relationship. You’ll go from adding to her stress to being the calm presence she can lean on (and jump on).

  • It’s not low libido. It’s not you being unattractive. It’s usually tiredness, a busy head, guilt, or feeling unsafe.

    This week, you’ll learn how to clear the mental and emotional “static” that blocks her from wanting intimacy — and how to become the man who helps her relax, open up, and reconnect sexually.

  • Most women aren’t bored of sex — they’re bored of sex that feels rushed or disconnected.

    This week, you’ll learn how to touch her in a way that melts her, communicates openly about pleasure, and become the kind of lover she can’t stop thinking about. (Spoiler: It has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with presence).

  • Want more energy, better sex, and a deeper connection? Stop chasing orgasm and start mastering your sexual energy.

    This week, you’ll learn how to slow things down, bring her more pleasure, and last longer — without feeling depleted. When you show up this way, she’ll crave you more and more.

  • You want more sex. You want to see your mates. You want less nagging and more ease at home.

    This week, we pull it all together. You’ll learn how to create a weekly rhythm where she wants to give you freedom — because you’re showing up fully when it counts.

    More sex, more mates, more freedom… and less bloody drama. That’s the new normal.

“This isn’t about pleasing her to keep the peace. This is about becoming the man you’d be proud to be — one she can’t resist, one your mates respect, and one your kids look up to.”

Emma Rogers Dumas

Real Change happens when you don’t just know what to do — you can feel it, lead it, and live it. Here’s how we’ll help you get there.

And just like an elite athlete trains for game day — mentally rehearsing the right moves before they hit the field — you’ll train for the moments that matter most in your relationship.

How it works and how you can make a difference.

  • Each week you’ll get straight-talking insights and tools from an experienced couples coach — no fluff, no jargon. You’ll learn:

    ✅ Why she reacts the way she does — and what creates real trust and attraction

    ✅ What shuts down her desire — and how to stop doing it

    ✅ How to speak, lead, and show up in ways that naturally make her want to be close (and say yes more often)

    You’ll also start to understand your own patterns — and how to shift from reacting to leading.

  • Learning is great — but men change when they feel it in their body.

    That’s why every week you’ll use a guided NLP-based meditation, built on the same mental rehearsal techniques elite athletes use before big games.

    In these meditations, you’ll:

    ✅ Mentally rehearse key moments — handling her moods, building attraction, leading calmly

    ✅ Build a felt sense of the man you want to be — so when the moment comes, your body already knows how to show up

    ✅ Anchor new patterns — so trust, polarity, and leadership become second nature

    This is where the real shift happens — from knowledge to embodied change.

  • Each week, you’ll take clear, simple actions that change the dynamic in your relationship fast.

    You won’t be guessing — you’ll be applying proven tools.

    You’ll learn how to:

    ✅ Build connection through small daily actions (the stuff that makes her want you again)

    ✅ Communicate boundaries, desires, and appreciation in ways that land

    ✅ Shift the emotional climate at home — so she feels safe, connected, and turned on

    ✅ Balance your mateship, freedom, and family life — with leadership she respects

    By the end of 8 weeks, you’ll be leading a different relationship — one where trust is high, sex is alive, and freedom flows from how you show up as a man.

Happy Customers

‘“This course changed everything. I stopped trying to fix my wife — and started showing up in a way that made her feel safe, seen, and turned on. We’re having more sex, less arguments, and I’ve got more space to be myself again.”

— Mark, 42, Dad of three, Sydney

“I signed up thinking this might get me more sex. Turns out it made me a better man — and then I got more sex. My wife actually said, ‘Who even are you right now?’ in a good way. Highly recommend.”

— Dave, 38, Footy Coach, Brisbane

Men are incredible. Truly.

In my coaching practice over the past ten years, I’ve been in awe of how deeply men want to please — and how often they’re misunderstood.

The sad truth is that many women don’t realise they are unintentionally shutting their men down — through how they speak, how they react, and what they don’t say.

But here’s why we’re starting by helping men first:

When you give men simple, effective things to try — they do try them.

And when they see success — they repeat it. Again and again.

And that’s what I want for you.

Because when a man leads well, the woman rests beautifully in that space.

And I want to help you lead even better — in a way that makes you proud, and makes her melt.

It’s no one’s fault we haven’t been taught how to communicate well across the sexes.

No one teaches this stuff. And yet, the differences are vast — but simple to work around once you know how.

If more people knew what I know, there would be so much more connection — and so much less angst — in relationships.

Over the past ten years, I’ve helped many families navigate these waters.

I haven’t lost a family to divorce yet.

And I know this course can do the same for you — it can almost divorce-proof your relationship.

I say this gently, but it’s important:

Many men don’t even realise how unhappy their wife is.

Men are often more tolerant of relationship challenges than women — the research backs this up.

And here’s the good news:

This course will make both of you happier than you can imagine.

The tools you’ll learn here are fast, simple, and easy to use — you’ll be blown away at how effective they are.

And everything we teach has been tested and proven in my practice for years.

We’re bringing this work online because we know we can help more people this way.

Our aim is to have a bigger impact on the world — not just one couple at a time.

You’re welcome to bring your wife to a session with me if you’d like.

But my hope is that this course will give you everything you need.

And maybe even our free first week will be enough to change your path completely — you may never need to pay. We truly mean that.

We’re here to support you.

Chris and I met at a professional development seminar — and we quickly realised how complementary our skills are.

We became business partners — and firm friends.

This course was my idea — it’s been in my heart for years.

But it was Chris, in his masculine leadership, who helped bring it into the world.

He made me feel safe and supported in a way that allowed me to thrive.

This is the very dynamic we want to help you create in your own relationship.

The man contains. The woman allows.

You’ll understand this more deeply as you go through the course.

We want this for both of you.

Our shared value is simple:

We want to make a difference.

If we don’t make any money, we honestly don’t care.

We just want more happiness in the world.

We hope this course brings that to you — and to your family.

Why We Built This Course

Meet the Team


  • I tell people I help create happiness for a living.

    The business I founded, as a parenting instructor, couples coach and life coach has helped 100’s of people. I believe deeply in the ripple effect, so it may likely be more.

    In 11 years.

    I’ve assisted so many couples to work as a team, helped clients connect with their kids in fabulous new ways, and supported everyone I work with know what to do in every parenting and partnership moment. 

  • I spent 30 years in the corporate world — leading teams, mentoring others, and building platforms that could scale. That gave me a deep understanding of leadership, human behaviour, and how to create change that lasts.

    In recent years, I’ve shifted my focus to inner work — drawing on my training in NLP, meditation, and emotional mastery with teachers like Tony Robbins and the Chopra Institute.

    When I met Emma, I saw the impact of her work with couples — and knew I could help bring it to more people. My strength is building things that last. Hers is helping people heal and reconnect. This course brings both together.

    As a man, I’ve used the tools in this program myself. And I can say with full conviction — they work.

Got Questions? You’re Not Alone.

  • No — it’s about becoming the man who naturally creates more connection, trust, and desire in your relationship.

    When you lead with presence, understand how women actually think, and create emotional safety, sex flows much more easily — but you’ll also get more freedom, less drama, and more peace at home.

  • Not at all. This isn’t about becoming someone else — it’s about becoming the best version of yourself.

    You’ll learn to lead with more clarity, calm, and masculine presence. The tools in this course help you enhance who you are — so she can feel it and respond to it.

  • That’s a common thought — and understandable. But here’s the truth:

    You can’t force her to change. What you can do is shift how you lead, communicate, and show up.

    When you do, the dynamic changes fast. Women are highly responsive to energy — when yours shifts, hers usually does too. This course shows you how to lead that shift.

  • No — in fact, the opposite.

    You’ll learn to set stronger boundaries, communicate more powerfully, and lead the relationship with presence and purpose. This is about masculine leadership, not compliance.

    Done right, this makes you more respected and desired — not less.

  • You can — but you don’t have to.

    Many men take the course quietly and watch how their relationship shifts naturally. Others choose to share it with their partner and invite collaboration.

    Either way, the tools you’ll learn will speak louder than words — she’ll feel the difference in how you show up.

  • Absolutely. This course is built on practical, real-world tools you’ll actually use.

    We do use insights from NLP and relationship psychology — but it’s all taught in plain language, with a masculine, action-focused approach.

    If you want simple, powerful things you can say and do that actually work — you’re in the right place!